Now that we are divorced, I am allowed to be a rude and unreasonable bitch about the Ex’s PT roommate, right? Or do I have to maintain the level of restraint and dignity that has served us both so well so far?
He invited himself to Thanksgiving in front of my kids, so what was I supposed to do? He paid for Boy11’s ticket since they’re flying together, so I guess that means I sell out easily for the money.
We agreed he could ask my family if it was okay to stay with them and they are all happy to have him (after checking with me first), so he chose to stay up with my sister, since she’s hosting the Thanksgiving gathering this year.
I just received a text from my sister, forwarding the one from my ex to her, requesting that his roomie come to Thanksgiving too. She apparently will be out here in California too, staying with friends or something,
My first instinct is “Hell, no. I don’t want him at the dinner let alone her. How much am I expected to put up with here without being an unreasonable ex?”
I know Boy11 likes her. After all, she’s the one who is cooking his meals and cleaning his house and living with him every day.
I can easily avoid her at the meal, as there will be so many people there. I don’t dislike her, just the whole bizarre situation gets to me. Should I just suck it up yet again?